I have been seeing someone for a couple
of years. We have been having some difficulties in our relationship
and I need to know if I should keep trying to make this relationship work.
Answer:
Dear One,
The person that you have attracted represents
the issues that you still carry. You own half of this problem. If
you leave, you will just re-create the same thing with someone else.
It is time for some personal growth work, and to stop laying blame. Start
giving more love, and less negativity.
A RELATIONSHIP
STORY:
A woman was in a relationship for many years.
They had their ups and downs, but she was always critical of her boyfriend,
no matter how hard he tried. He eventually stopped trying, and then she
got more angry with him. One day she stopped, and took a look at
what she was saying to him. She realized that she sounded just like
her own mother. She decided to take several days away from him, to
figure out what all of it meant.
When they started to date again she started to
treat him with more love. When he got her a cup of coffee, she told
him how sweet he was. When he changed the light bulb in her kitchen,
she told him how much he helped her. The man began to shine,
and to feel loved and appreciated. In a matter of a few weeks the
relationship was transformed into one of love. They were married
later that same year.
Remember, if you want love, to give love, and
it will be returned.
Blessings,
Whitneay T. Vanwells
